Lesson Topics: empathy, sympathy, talking about problems
Skill Focus: Listening, Speaking, Vocabulary
Approximate Class Time: 1.75 hours
Lesson Plan Download: empathy-sympathy-advanced-lesson-092024.docx
Lesson Overview:
- After warm-up questions, students preview 10 vocabulary items contained in the YouTube video "Brené Brown on Empathy" that discusses the differences between showing empathy and sympathy. The video is nicely animated and only 2:53 in length.
- The video is followed by comprehension and a vocabulary-matching activity. After vocabulary matching, students form discussion questions with the target vocabulary.
- There are two debate topics. One is about the value of 'talking out' your issues and the other questions whether empathy can be learned.
- Prior to roleplays, students read three strategies for expressing empathy. Next, they brainstorm problems two fictional characters might have. Finally, they roleplay a conversation with the characters and try to use the aforementioned strategies.
- Next, as a more fun activity, students try to find the silver lining in a set of problematic scenarios.
- After famous quotations, the lesson ends with a review of vocabulary and collocations before presenting some final discussion questions.
ADVANCED (C1/C2) Lesson on Empathy & Sympathy
Warm-up-Questions
- Who do you talk to when you have a personal problem? Why do you go to them?
- What is the difference between empathy and sympathy? Can you give examples to illustrate?
- Does every bad event have a positive side?
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Comprehension Question Answer Key
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- According to Brown, empathy fuels connection, while sympathy drives disconnection. Empathy is about feeling with someone, while sympathy often distances us by trying to make the situation better without truly understanding it.
- Brown calls empathy a “sacred space” because it involves truly connecting with another person on an emotional level, without judgment or the need to fix things. It is a space where someone’s pain is acknowledged and shared.
- She calls it a “vulnerable choice” because, in order to connect with someone else’s pain, you have to connect with something in yourself that understands that pain, which exposes your own vulnerability.
- Showing the ‘silver lining’ is often unhelpful because it dismisses the other person’s pain or struggle. It suggests that their feelings aren't valid or important by trying to focus on something positive, rather than just acknowledging their difficult emotions.
Vocabulary 1-fuel, 2. sacred, 3. empathy, 4. diverse, 5. perspective, 6. overwhelmed, 7. silver lining, 8. vulnerable, 9. miscarriage, 10. scholar
Collocations 1-c, 2-f, 3-b, 4-d, 5-a, 6-e
[1] Sources: https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-show-empathy, https://students.ubc.ca/ubclife/emotional-intelligence-101-empathetic-responses