Lesson Topics: incels, misogyny, dating culture
Skill Focus: Reading, Speaking, Vocabulary
Approximate Class Time: 2.5 hours
Lesson Plan Download: incel-study-advanced-lesson-062025.docx
- Foreword: Page two has an extended activity on stereotypes based on memes from the incel community. Be sure to pre-read and edit as required. Younger students will find the activity fun (I assume), but as teachers, we need to be mindful of the potential harm of stereotyping. Avoid use if you teach for a conservative institution. -MB
- The lesson begins with warm-up questions about dating and attraction between the sexes.
- The reading passage, at 294 words in length, first gives background on the incel community. It then summarizes a new study (May 21, 2025) on incel attitudes and beliefs published the Archives of Sexual Behavior journal. The study's results challenge some misconceptions about the incel community and highlight the mental health and antisocial factors that lead to such harmful atitudes.
- The reading passage is followed by comprehension and follow-up questions.
- Next, students match vocabulary from the passage to definitions. Then students form discussion questions with the target vocabulary.
- The lesson has two debate prompts related to finding a romantic partner and the value of dating apps.
- The first extended speaking activity focuses on four archetypes from the incel community: The Stacey, The Chad, The Becky, and The Virgin. After labelling a meme-based images, students read a list of 13 descriptors that they must try to match to each archetype. I've made an effort to include more lighthearted descriptors (compared to some of the vulgar ideas found in the original memes). The activity ends with a discussion of how memes such as these affect our views of men and women.
- The first roleplay describes a situation between a father who wants to get his incel son to begin dating and have a "normal" social life. The second is between a TikTok content manager who is considering banning a controversial "alpha-male" influencer.
- Next, students review three famous quotations and the lesson's collocations for both the passage and the archetype activity.
- Finally, students review vocabulary before discussing some final discussion questions.
ADVANCED (C1/C2) Lesson on Incel Attitudes & Beliefs
Warm-up Questions
- In your opinion, is getting a boyfriend or girlfriend difficult?
- Do you consider yourself someone who is good at dating or attracting a partner?
- What type of men are women typically physically attracted to and vice versa? Complete the table below:
| Women desire someone who is …. | Men desire someone who is … |
- Some people identify as “incels”. What does this mean? What do you know about them?
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Comprehension Question Answer Key
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- Black-pilled means believing one is stuck in a hopeless situation (especially romantically) due to unchangeable factors like looks or genetics. This belief may reduce motivation to improve or seek help.
- The study challenges the idea that incels are mostly white, far-right, and unemployed. It found a diverse group with varied political views and employment status.
- “Slightly left of center” means leaning slightly liberal or progressive. This contrasts with the stereotype that incels are mostly right-wing.
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Vocabulary: 1-c, 2-k, 3-j, 4-e, 5-l, 6-a, 7-b, 8-g, 9-h, 10-f, 11-i, 12-d
Archetype answers:
- Stacey-c,e,g,j
- Chad-d,k
- Becky-a,b,f
- Virgin-h,I,l
Passage Collocations 1-b, 2-a, 3-f, 4-e, 5-c, 6-d
Archetype Collocations: 1-g, 2-h, 3-b, 4-a, 5-f, 6-e, 7-d, 8-c
[1] https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-025-03161-y
[2] https://www.educateagainsthate.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/Incels-A-guide-for-those-teaching-Year-10-and-above-1-1.pdf , descriptions: https://www.vox.com/2018/4/28/17290256/incel-chad-stacy-becky